In the last newsletter, we explored how Richard Matherly and Cliff Wilcox spark Rotary conversations and spot great lunch guests. This time, they're back with more insights - plus a few thoughtful reflections for members who want to extend an invite but aren't sure how. 

Can you tell us about a time you invited someone who really clicked with the club? 

Cliff: "Most of the time, they hear me speak about Rotary and approach me with interest. I invite them to be 'my guest' at a lunch meeting or Happy Hour. I don't spend the whole time with them - I want them to meet and connect with other members so they experience the quality of people in our club."

What do you say when someone hesitates or says 'maybe later'?

Richard: "'Maybe later' can be the right answer in someone's life - but it also delays the amazing benefits of Rotary. Members get involved at their own pace. Start light, but start."

Cliff: "Since we only meet twice a month, if someone can't make it this Tuesday, their schedule three weeks from now is usually open. That gives us a target."

What's your go-to tip for members nervous about inviting guests?

Richard: "Having a guest at Rotary isn't like inviting someone into your home - it's introducing them to a life experience full of opportunity. Just do it."

Cliff: "It's a free lunch, a great speaker, just an hour out of their day - and a chance to network and meet people, especially if they're building a business."

Cliff's Final Thoughts to a Prospect

* Busy but want to give back? Rotary offers scheduled events you can simply add to your calendar - just like any business meeting or family event.

* Worried about time or cost? Our club meets twice monthly for lunch, once for Happy Hour, and typically has one service project per month. It's a manageable, meaningful way to stay involved without the weekly commitment or high cost of other clubs.